Im still grieving afterall, for what seems like an eternity.

Talking to her has helped me gained an insight, thoughts which are hidden in the subconcious mind has suddenly surfaced and make some sense.

Allow yourself to heal. It's ok to grieve, its fine to grieve, but don't dwell. Humans are imperfect, there is no perfect love, only conditional and unconditional love. Friends, true friends give unconditional love. Be receptive of this love. What good things do we see when love dies? Relief. Relieve, release from the painful suffering of a lifeless, loveless relationship. Learning that its not meant to be, and that it's over. Relieve that it's hurting now, for the hurt may be so much more painful and unbearable if love dies, and the relationship goes on.

When and how can i end the grieving and take a leap towards healing? Felt like i've been running on the treadmil for 8 months, covering distances but no displacement. With gallons of sweat dripping and evaporating and dripping and evaporating and dripping and evaporating.....